(Check out my LinkedIn Learning course, Finding Work+Life Fit, for an introduction to work+life fit "how-to" basics.)Ĭali Williams Yost, Founder and CEO of the Flex+Strategy Group, is a leading expert on how to build high performance flexible work cultures that attract and retain top talent, optimize resources, increase productivity and improve work+life “fit.” Her pioneering flexible work+life fit advice for individuals can be found in her most recent book, Tweak It: Make What Matters to You Happen Every Day and in her LinkedIn Learning course Finding Work+Life Fit. If more CEOs and business leaders want employees that “come into the office and give everyone a kick in their step,” then we need to make it a strategic priority to help colleagues find and leverage the flexibility inherent in today’s workplaces. Props, high fives and kudos to Bezos for reinforcing an important truth-there is no such thing as work-life balance-and for being a voice and a champion on this issue rather than leaving it to Human Resources to manage, as so many do. We have to actively manage how work and life fit together and understand that fit is always changing. Sometimes there’s more work and less life. Whatever term we use, remember it’s a verb, not a noun.Reaffirm there is no “right” way to manage work and life therefore, a one size fits all policy won’t work and we can’t compare ourselves to others.Recognize each of us has a completely different set of work and life realities at any given time. No two people are the same.Explore the myriad of possibilities for the way work and life can fit together in today’s increasingly flexible workplaces.Whether we use fit, balance, harmony, integration or some other term to describe the important goal of intentionally managing work and life, we need to do the following: We need to encourage employees and colleagues to take control and find their work+life fit (my preferred term) based upon their ever-changing unique realities. While Bezos may call his fit a complete “mesh,” even he describes how he sets boundaries and limits his accessibility by “eating with his family, takes a limited number of meetings and sets aside time for tasks such as washing his own dishes.” That’s something we all need to do. What they seek, and what they need, are better boundaries around work and life. More clarity around expectations of accessibility and responsiveness. Less “mesh.” There is no such thing as balance. For most, balance infers the goal is a 50-50 split between work and the rest of our lives which rarely, if ever, happens. As a result, balance becomes the Holy Grail we never get and leaves us always thinking we need more balance. No, we don’t. We need to fit work and life together in a way that allows us to be our best on and off the job.īezos is right. "If I am happy at home, I come into the office with tremendous energy and if I am happy at work, I come home with tremendous energy.” But where Bezos and I differ is on how to achieve this state of professional and personal well-being.įor Bezos, the answer is a “mesh” between work and life or work-life “harmony.” Work and life are completely integrated into one whole. Work and life are one and the same. But for many, this “integration” is the problem. Not necessarily because there is a strict trade-off as Bezos implied, but because balance does not exist! This is an argument I’ve been making for more than 15 years. “Word! Halleluiah! Amen!” That was my reaction when I heard Jeff Bezos dropped an important truth bomb we all needed to hear- “work-life balance” IS indeed a debilitating phrase.
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